| For Women |
Sacred Spot- G Spot Healing
Freedom from the known
The Sacred Spot (G-spot) is the Woman's emotional sex center. The Woman carries in her Sacred Spot her highest potential for pleasure and ecstasy as well as her physical and emotional wounding from her past. To achieve her highest pleasure and ecstasy, the woman needs to move and clear the blocked and trapped energies and emotions of past trauma and wounding through massaging of her Sacred Spot, which is located in her "Yoni" (vagina). When these energies and emotions are released, she is freed to express her natural, powerful and expansive orgasmic nature. She steps fully into her Goddess self in all her aspects. Celebrating her "Shakti" energy completely. Cohesive in her ability to give and receive luscious and fulfilling sexual pleasure for herself and with her lover.
Most Sacred Spot
I'm fond of saying that an afternoon of sacred spot work is like two years of talk therapy. Sacred spot massage is a healing modality that can be used to clear emotional blocks in women. With proper instruction, a woman may move quickly and powerfully through the issues that prevent her from exuberantly enjoying her sexual, sensual nature. There is also the potential for experiencing full-body orgasm. Woman have attempted to describe their experience, and words are weak, but as close as they can get is that they became aware of a pulsating, outward expansion of all that exists, and for a few minutes enter into this movement, this sensation, with every cell in the body and every aspect of being. A profound and spiritual occurrence that can be transformational and healing.
Open like the beautiful being you are
It is a precious gift for releasing blocks that keep a woman from enjoying sexual encounters. If she has experienced trauma in her sexual or relationship history and her sacred spot is intentionally stimulated for healing, she may remember inappropriate touching, undesired intercourse, or other sexual or emotional trauma. Unresolved issues around abortion, miscarriage, medical exams and childbirth may be present. Sacred spot is like a map of a woman's sexual history to date. The work may also trigger fantasies, past life images, birth trauma and repressed childhood sexual abuse memories. The work is also useful for simply reducing the tension and stress from our busy lives
A session involving sacred spot work can be one of reflowering. This can
remove negative imprints from her first sexual experience, so that more
positive sexual memories can come forward in her life. The sexual system,
located in the second chakra, is the most vulnerable to being shut down
by our life traumas. This results in a diminishment of life force throughout
the entire body and being. It is rare that a woman has not experienced
some form of sexual mistreatment, intrusion or harassment. Sacred spot
massage begins to remove these layers of distress.
FOR THE RECEIVER
The receiver should instruct the facilitator on the amount of pressure
that she feels would bring release. It may seem beyond what is comfortable,
but that is how release can begin.
When the spot is first touched, the woman may feel an urge to urinate.
This sensation should pass quickly. Many women report having a pleasure
point and a tender point on the spot, sometimes directly opposite each
other. As you may have guessed, the tender point is the place to work to
gain emotional release. Maintain an attitude of adventure and exploration
and remember that you will get better with practice.
You determine how much love, pleasure and enjoyment you can allow yourself. Open to the gifts of deep healing.
Heavy emotional energy may be present at times. Rage, deep sadness and intense fear can arise. Do your best to relax into any unpleasant feelings and allow them to be released. If you feel you have hit a wall and don't want to go any further, know that locating the block is part of the healing. You can return to the process in a future session.
Actually, hysteria can be quite useful in releasing huge blocks of held energy very quickly.
Suppressed rage prevents us from experiencing passion. I believe that as we do our work individually, we are also healing the deep wounds that exist in our culture between men and women. Hold the intention of healing not just for yourself, but also for all people on the planet. This is extremely powerful and needed work.
Communicate your needs and feelings in a way that is not critical or blaming.
You can work with your issues in increments. You have developed these
blocks over an entire lifetime. Be gentle and patient with yourself in
moving through them.
The time after sacred spot work can be especially filled with stillness. You may share content of what was occurring in your mind and body as the release took place. Many personally experience a lightness of being that is hard to describe, but so precious. It can last for several days after sacred spot work. And many women often have awareness and revelations arise in the days following the work that gives more insight into continuing emotional and spiritual evolvement.
| When I began experiencing Sacred Spot Massage, 9 years ago, I went
through many levels of healing and awakening of my sexual expression
and pleasure. I had been date raped at 17 years old, an attempted rape
at 21 years old and physically abused by my father as a child. Even
though I had had extensive therapy for many years, I was still carrying
deep physical and emotional scars in my body and my sexual center.
Each layer that I healed through Sacred Spot Massage with my lover
opened me deeper to my ability to experience intimacy, closeness and
extraordinary levels of joy, love and pleasure. The practice allowed
me to release blocked energies in my body that had manifested in chronic
physical disorders. After just six months of regular Sacred Spot Massage
my chronic vaginal infections and yeast infections became almost nonexistent.
I felt more energized in my life and very positive about myself as
a woman. My heart was much more open to men and I felt a deeper sense
of trust. My orgasms have continued to expand and intensify over time.
Seven years ago I began to ejaculate "Amrita", the female
ejaculate. My ability to ejaculate has opened me even further. My orgasmic
potential has increased to deeper and extremely powerful levels of
pleasure and joy. I have noticed that my sexual opening and freedom
from this practice has affected all the parts of my life. It has created
in me a sense of power and strength that has heightened my awareness
and refined my sensitivity with myself, relationships with men and
my clients. Sacred Spot Massage has been an invaluable tool and ritual
in claiming my feminine sexual birthright. Stephanie Stone |
Discovering my sacred spot has been a wonderful healing experience as well as a re-awakening to the power of my sexuality. Having suffered sexual abuse from my big brother as a child, I wanted nothing to do with boys until I lost my virginity a 24. This caused an enormous conflict for me because I was a very sexual girl and adolescent. I had my first orgasm at five years old while climbing the flagpole at school, and freely experimented with masturbation after that. I was very curious about sex but the abuse caused me to protect myself against boys to an extreme. Finally, a very caring boyfriend assisted me in freeing my sexuality at 24, and I continued to enjoy having loving sex with partners since then. Just in this past year, however, I had my first sacred spot massage from a Tantric Daka (male teacher of Tantra) and experienced the deepest orgasm I had ever had before. The next session with him, I still had the deep orgasm but also tapped into the well of grief and sadness that had been stored in my Yoni. This was miraculous to me because I had already been through a lot of bodywork and therapy in the past, but had never experienced such a deep emotional release before. It was amazing to me also that my tears had no memory attached to them. I felt like I was releasing not only my own pain, but also the collective sorrow from violence to women throughout time. After my two sacred spot sessions, I shortly thereafter became involved with a wonderful, loving man with whom I have experienced the expansive love and connection during sacred spot lovemaking. It is still the most intimate way that he and I connect. First, because he assists me in opening my heart and all the vulnerable emotions that I need to be expressed, and second, he gets to experience serving the Goddess in me, which allows him to surrender his ego and be filled with love. I really feel his deep nurturing of my body and my heart when we practice sacred spot massage. He tells me it makes him feel like a King to love me in this way, and I do feel like his Queen. To me the sacred spot has been the key to my sexual empowerment and total healing. Andrea-39 yrs old, Artist/Foreign Culture Expert |
We are often disappointed after lovemaking.
Why?
Because most of us are like owners of a precious
Stradivarius violin
that we have never learned to play.
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