Female Tantra balancing sessions
Before your session starts your teacher will ask you to sign a consent form,this form outlines all the options available during the balancing session
Plan on at least one hour (at a very minimum) of completely undisturbed and uninterrupted time.
Optional
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as "sacred space" or "Sacred Temple." In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is particularly important for men to learn.
Before beginning the Yoni Massage your teacher will create a space for the you (the receiver) in which to relax, from which you can more easily enter a state of high arousal and experience great pleasure . The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form of "safe sex" and is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex therapists use it to assist women to break through sexual blocks or trauma.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the Yoni. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and do not have to worry about achieving any particular goal. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. The Teacher will allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself.
Both giver and receiver should remember to breathe deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or begins to take shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is most important.
Your teacher will gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to encourage the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching her Yoni.
| Have you ever noticed that your sexual responses can change day to day, hour to hour? Our erotic energy is influenced by so many factors, it is important that we make a commitment to exploring our sexual responses over time. You may have a “blah” experience with your partner on Firday and on Saturday have a fabulous time. To explore the ups, downs and all arounds of your sexual response, I suggest you receive a vulva massage for three days in a row. See how it feels each day, and what else in your day has influenced the experience. Be curious and open to surprise. |
The Crown Jewel
The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure, similar in function to the male's glans, but surprisingly - up to four times more sensitive. The glans portion of the clitoris holds 6,000 - 8,000 sensory nerve endings, more than any other structure in the human body. This hypersensitive node has only one purpose: pleasure. Nothing exceeds its ability to receive and transmit sensations of touch, pressure or vibration. The glans are "crown jewel" of the clitoral system!
The Teacher will Stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeezeing it between thumb and index fingers. This massage is not done to get the receiver off. You The receiver will possibly become very aroused but your teacher will continue to encourage you to relax and breathe.
Your Teacher will Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of the right hand into your Yoni (there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). The giver will Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with this finger.The teacher will take their time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. The depth, speed and pressure be varied. It is important to remember that this is a massage in which you are nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With the palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, the middle finger will be moved in a "come here" gesture or crook back towards the palm. The teacher will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, "the sacred spot". You may feel the need to urinate, experience a little discomfort or most hopefully pleasure.The pressure, speed and pattern of movement WILL BE VARIED ACCORDING TO YOUR FEEDBACK.
[In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is gently massaging her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni and your thumb on her clitoris, "You are holding one of the mysteries of the universe in your hand."]
If you have an orgasm, keep breathing, the teacher will continue the session if you desire. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave." Caressing and stroking can produce a virtually endless cycle of orgasmic waves.
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Most women never experience these states in their life time...
We are often disappointed
after lovemaking. Why?
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that
we have never learned to play.
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