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G Spot
What is it?
For many women, it's a highly sensitive, highly
erotic area that provides hours of pleasure.
For others it's a knobbly bit that, when touched
too much, creates an overwhelming sensation of
needing a wee. Some women can't feel any sensation
at all while others don't seem to have one at
all.
The films taken by Masters and Johnson, their
papers, their figures recording breathing rates,
blood pressure, heart beat, vaginal lubrication
and other physical responses had convinced
almost everyone they were right, it does exist/
But At the end of the
1980 conference, gynaecologist Dr Martin Weisberg
of Thomas Jefferson University
Hospital in Philadelphia said the new information
was "bull."
"I spend half my waking hours examining,
cutting apart, putting together, removing, or
rearranging female reproductive organs. There
is no female prostate and women don't ejaculate," he
said. Afterwards, Perry and Whipple produced
a woman whose vagina was being stimulated manually
by her partner so that Weisberg could examine
her stimulated G spot. He changed his mind.
What to do with it
Once you've established whether you've got one
or not, you need to discover whether you have
one that gives you pleasure or just feels a
bit annoying. Stroking is usually the most
enjoyable form of stimulation.
Sexual virtuosos recommend inserting the forefinger
to about the second knuckle and making a 'come
here' motion towards the front vaginal wall.
You'll need to experiment with pressure and length
of stroke to find out what feels best for you.
It's important that you're sexually aroused first,
and also worth noting that many women say sensitivity
varies throughout the month.
During stimulation, the first sensation might
be the need to go to the loo, possibly because
the G-spot is on the front wall so your bladder
is being pushed. You can check this out by making
sure your bladder's empty first then seeing how
it feels. The first couple of times it might
be a bit odd, but many women say a little perseverance
is more than worth it.
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